Self esteem is simply believing in yourself. Self esteem can however change from high to low. This happens when we change our way of thinking, when we start seeing ourselves differently - negative thoughts.
When we start thinking negatively about ourselves, we lower our self esteem.
Negative thinking is a fierce enemy that dampens our zeal and motivation as educators.
Negative thinking is a fierce enemy that dampens our zeal and motivation as educators.
It derails us from set goals, changes our outlook or expectations from life, our mood, making us give less than our best.
As educators, we must see ourselves differently. We are life builders. Our students look up to us. How do you advice a child to believe in himself when you have self esteem issues?
We must therefore have a good perception of ourselves. How do you introduce yourself in the midst of other professionals? As just a teacher? Really? That's a case of low self esteem - seeing other professions as superior to yours.
Teachers whose self esteem is well developed would walk into a room filled with other professionals head high.
Make it your goal to boost your self esteem today.
What to do:
1. Embark on various self and professional development courses. Gain more knowledge. Become an expert in your field.
There are so many MOOC providers. One of such providers is www.futurelearn.com.
2. Accept criticism. Do not feel bad when you or your work is criticised. Instead, act on it, use it as a stepping stone for something positive.
3. Preparedness: always be prepared. When you are prepared, you can weather any storm that may come your way. You will be ready to give an answer to anyone.
4. Be organized. Dress smartly. Be neat and clean.
5. Collaboration: collaborate with other educators, especially those who are doing so well. Association with such ones will help boost your self esteem.
Remember, the worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself. - Mark Twain
4 Comments
These are great points about our profession! In the U.S., the teaching profession is always the target of harsh criticism, but it's important that educators model good self-esteem. And I definitely believe in investing in oneself through education, as well as through collaboration.
ReplyDeleteGreat post!
I see educators who introduce themselves as 'just a teacher', and I feel so bad. Investing in oneself and collaboration is indeed important. Thanks @Kim Lepre.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true. I do find it easier to coach people to higher self-esteem while having a low one because we easily see the potential in others rather than ourselves.
ReplyDeleteYou are right. It took me a while to see myself the way others do. Thanks @Michelle.
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